Online Dating is Not a Contest

August 24th, 2008    Subscribe To Our Feed

Online dating is not a contest involving rival males for the consideration of a female. Grow up. Alter your mind set from “winning” to “searching”. You are no longer in high school – it is time to play the grown ups game. Your attitude is the most vital asset that you possess. You cannot expect someone of the opposite sex to be attracted to you if you don’t even like yourself – focus on your positive aspects and the things that you love about yourself and your partner-to-be will be drawn to those positive aspects

What is that women want, you ask? That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.

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Ask the Right Questions First

June 21st, 2008    Subscribe To Our Feed

OK. You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women wore labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”.but they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.

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A Woman’s ‘Don’ts’ of Online Dating

June 18th, 2008    Subscribe To Our Feed

There are some things that women should never do while engaged in an online relationship with a man. These things are certain to put a quick and final end to any further communications with him.

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Blind Date vs Internet Date

June 12th, 2008    Subscribe To Our Feed

Your friend has decided that you need help with your social life so she sets you up with a blind date.a friend of a friend of a friend. You, foolishly, accept. Now there you are. It’s less than one hour since you were introduced. You are sitting in a Thai restaurant and you hate Thai food. The entre has not yet been served. His idea of enlightened conversation is who will be in the final fouryou aren’t into sports.

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Valentine’s Day, Fairytales and Finding Your Soul Mate

May 29th, 2008    Subscribe To Our Feed

Is it really any wonder that we’re in so much trouble as a society when it comes to marriage and relationships when you look around at the various media portrayals of what an ideal, healthy relationship might look like. Let’s start with a popular ballad about the expectations you might have of your soul mate:

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Don’t Judge a Woman by Her Looks!

April 21st, 2008    Subscribe To Our Feed

I know this tip may sound very clich, but it’s true. At some point or another we’re all guilty of judging something, or someone, based on appearance alone. While it’s not right, we still seem to have that tendency to be superficial. This type of behavior can be very detrimental when it comes to seducing a woman. Women like to be appreciated for who they are, not what they look like. Even those women who have great physical beauty don’t necessarily want to be judged on that characteristic alone.

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