Online Dating is Not a Contest

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Online dating is not a contest involving rival males for the consideration of a female. Grow up. Alter your mind set from “winning” to “searching”. You are no longer in high school – it is time to play the grown ups game. Your attitude is the most vital asset that you possess. You cannot expect someone of the opposite sex to be attracted to you if you don’t even like yourself – focus on your positive aspects and the things that you love about yourself and your partner-to-be will be drawn to those positive aspects

What is that women want, you ask? That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.

Women want a man to be confidentNOT an arrogant jerk. There’s a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either. They can’t live up to that expectation.

Women want a someone with the ability to communicate. The “strong silent type” in fact is not in the least bit interesting. They think you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care what they said or didn’t even hear what they said. They want you to be appealing enough to desire to learn more about you and they want you to believe that they are fascinating enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too. Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don’t want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.
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